It should come as no surprise to you all to read that this week’s question was penned by The Hairy Kilted one!
For guys and girls who like girls – what is it that you like about boobs? Is there an ideal shape or size?
For girls – how do you feel about how you feel about your “girls”? Are you happy with them? Have you always been?
For everyone – do you think the female “chest” has been over sexualised?
I like small boobs on a girl, with small nipples. There is nothing wrong with larger breasts, but they just don’t ‘do’ it for me.
I really dislike when they are obviously surgically enhanced. That grapefruit look is just unattractive in my opinion. I find it very off-putting in porn. Sometimes the skin looks so stretched as to be painful and I fear it will tear!
As for own boobs… well they’ve been all shapes and sizes!
They popped up very early… at about age 9. I hated them! I always crossed my arms to hide them and had a hunched back. None of my friends developed as early as me and I felt very self-conscious and embarrassed about them. I think I felt that I was being forced to grow up too soon. A little tomboy who loved to paddle in the river, run in the woods and get dirty didn’t need or want boobs getting in the way.
I remember feeling such resentment as my mother took me to buy my first bra. I didn’t want to be there and I didn’t want the bra. It was a pretty A cup Cacherel bra, (my mother chose well), but I still detested it.
During my teens I actually liked my boobs and got quite a thrill of showing them off in tight tops or by going obviously braless. I’ll never forget when the OH and I were 19 and I was staying at his house in the summer, wearing a baggy vest top that showed side boob, (long before it was a thing). He gulped and asked if I really intended to go out wearing that and learned an early lesson in not questioning your girlfriend’s fashion choices. (To be fair to him, he lived in a very rural, conservative place with very conservative parents and I was quite the loose cannon…)
At their largest, the girls reached a DD cup, (picture that on a five foot tall chick for a minute…). One cup could fit over my entire face.
At their smallest they were on the small side of a B cup. I really liked them then, they were pert, round and compact. Less than his handful. They felt light and I was happy with them.
Today they are bursting at the seams of a C cup – over flowing, spilling out and barely restrained.
I am loathe to buy a larger size as it feels like I am giving up the hope that I can lose weight, so I wear this torturous piece of fabric and wire for as long as I absolutely need to each day and gleefully whip it off as soon as I am home.
⬅️ I’ve just done it!
I should just buy a bigger size… but I don’t wanna!
As for whether breasts have been over-sexualised, my answer is yes. The “Free The Nipple” campaign on Instagram, the censorship of avis/headers on Twitter and the crazy and outdated attitudes of some people in relation to public breastfeeding is evidence enough. For example:
“In the USA it is effectively illegal for a woman to be topless, breastfeeding included, in 35 states. In less tolerant places like Louisiana, an exposed nipple can take a woman to jail for up to three years and cost $2,500 in fines.” (ref: freethenipple.com)
Breasts exist as means of nurturing and feeding a baby, which in itself is quite a beautiful and glorious thing, is it not? To think people feel that it is offensive, or in any way sexual when a woman breastfeeds her child in public is simply… idiotic!
At the end of the day, breasts are basically lumps of fatty tissue, encased in skin, hanging off our chests. Let’s get real about this!
*And yes, Wookie, I know… Boobs are your very favourite things! 😂
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